DON'T LEAVE ME

0:00 - Welcome & Guest Introduction 2:50 - The Dreaded Dating Apps...? 7:38 - Who starts the conversation? 14:29 - S*xual Escalation & Touching consent 17:30 - Initiating touch 20:00 - Cheeky first messages 21:41 - Who should pay on the first date? 23:50 - "Meal ticket" 26:02 - Weirdos and texts 30:00 - Is marriage even still a good idea? 33:30 - Prenups? 34:48 - Would Jo ever get married again? 37:10 - How long to date before marriage? 40:39 - Is divorce evil? 43:25 - Reactions to divorcing are awful 46:30 - The judgment on relationships ending 49:13 - How to define a successful relationship? 52:24 - Encouraged growth 53:37 - "Loyalty" 57:15 - Loyalty or Control? 59:31 - Fresh & Fit Demonetization 1:04:00 - Rumble? 1:06:30 - S*exual Chemistry & Attraction? 1:10:27 - Russell on why he's never had s*x 1:14:08 - Better to stay virgin for marriage success (?) discussion 1:15:12 - She didn't feel safe so she thought she wasn't physical 1:17:17 - Why is society so s*x negative? 1:18:00 - The shaming of s*x in evangelical Christianity 1:20:23 - Does "body count" matter? 1:23:20 - Tom gets hit on 1:24:30 - Your body never "belongs" to you 1:27:00 - Does having a "body count" preference matter? 1:28:48 - Is wearing makeup lying? 1:33:40 - Makeup isn't for you 1:34:55 - Are women out to get you? 1:35:13 - Jo loses track of the conversation 1:37:37 - The conversation about STI's 1:39:29 - What does a quality man look like? 1:42:00 - How many matches Jo came back to on Tinder 1:43:27 - How often do women swipe? 1:44:15 - The emotional burden 1:45:11 - Safety concerns constantly 1:47:44 - The best date? 1:48:29 - Facetime or phone calls first? 1:50:40 - Favorite first date experience 1:52:49 - What kind of podcast IS this? 1:54:00 - Toxic masculity...? 1:56:55 - The toxic-ification of masculinity in religion 1:59:46 - Does the rhetoric around masculinity have an effect? Welcome to Episode 1 of Turbo Dude, a podcast discussing modern dating, marriage, relationships, gender and gender interaction, and topical events - hosted by Footless Jo & Aaron Palos from Life of Palos! This Week’s Guests: Shaylee http://www.instagram.com/shayleejustshaylee Russell Klimas https://www.instagram.com/lightnlense Tom Broderick Tip Link: https://streamlabs.com/footlessjo/tip Join us next week, October 4th, at 6:00 PST/9:00 EST P.M., for Epsiode 2!

Enough is enough!

CW: Discussions of SA, Ab*se & V*ctim Blaming Join us LIVE tonight on stream (right here on my channel, hit subscribe and turn on all notifications to be notified!) at 6:00PST/9:00EST P.M. for the very first episode of Turbo Dude with my co-host Life of Palos and three fabulous guests for our panel!!! 💜 Pearl’s Original Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLUeZzDAGNw *a note about the video: in it, I state that these types of crimes are motivated by power or control seeking. I should have clarified that that is often the case, though certainly not in every case. Resources: *SA is a complex and nuanced issue. Here are a few jumping-off points for consideration and further reading and research, if you are interested. https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf https://www.svri.org/sites/default/files/attachments/2016-01-13/127.full_.pdf https://tinyurl.com/4xnjf27w https://tinyurl.com/ywyux6r9 https://tinyurl.com/zcc93m2k https://tinyurl.com/23rcsxc4 https://tinyurl.com/msafxt5c https://traumaticstress.nhs.wales/children-and-young-people/trauma-and-the-brain/ The restraining order video I mentioned: https://youtu.be/r8vwY5KLMC4 #JustPearlyThings #RussellBrand #FootlessJo ------------------------------------------------ Support This Channel 💜 Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/jobeckwith Merch! https://www.footlessmerch.com Socials ❤️ Insta: http://www.instagram.com/footlessjo TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@footlessjo Website: http://www.footlessjo.com Discord: https://dis.gd/FootlessJo-YT My P.O. Box 📫 Jo Beckwith 3578 Hartsel Drive #615 Colorado Springs, CO 80920 Speaking Engagements 🗣 Want me to come and speak at your event, conference, meeting, panel, or school? Fill out this form to submit a request! https://www.footlessjo.com/book-jo ---------------------------------------------------- My Amputation Story! Fourteen years of pain and failed ankle surgeries brought me to 2018, when I made the difficult decision to become a twenty-seven-year-old below-the-knee elective amputee. This channel has documented my journey adjusting to life with a visible disability as an amputee, and continues to be a haven to discuss physical and mental health! Amputation Story Videos: Why Did I Lose My Leg? https://youtu.be/L98eS0xfZWc How I Said Goodbye To My Leg: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaIIu6bFKVo&t=12s Seeing My Amputated Leg for the First Time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h50Bjl5NIHw Day in the Life of an Amputee: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VJZLpqkZ-o&t=80s *Some of the links above may contain affiliate marketing*

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